Agree with the responsibility lesson above however be mindful
A. Self Pity. It's intoxicating at first and leads to depression and complete loss of motivation. B. Taking on blame from others who are just trying to project their own shortcomings on you. Common among lazy employees and domestic disputes. (I've seen in an office of 10 where 2 people just kill themsselves getting things done and 8 others try to delegate their jobs to the 2. When plans go South the 2 who work for a living get the blame. Usually a direct result of weak leadership)
"All I want is a weeks pay for a day's work" Steve Martin
