Re Lil
It's the fact that he is just about the perfect partner in EVERY way........never nags me ever about anything......(THAT'S a newie for me-- never met a guy who NEVER pouts),......loves any kind of shopping for clothes...
Great list about your bf Lil. I was wondering if I should go back to finishing school. <that last comment was about me, no one else>

he thinks the best of people and gives them the benefit of the doubt
I can do that so maybe I am doing some things right.

always has a pie on hand
No way???????? <as in, that is different> to which Lil replies "way" as in "Wayne's World".

even at "my age,"
Never limit yourself because of your age. Limiting factors have more to do with mental and/or physical health, and energy level.

Lou