Quote: As long as you remember that you cannot control him or change him even if you do everything "right" (by his definition).
I really do try to spend my energy on fixing the things that are "wrong" with me in any context. I am a nerd so I take comfort in objective standards. I would be a basket case if I took all of my H's pickyness to heart rather than just finding most of it annoying.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
