Quote: Aren't any of the problems in your marriage, sexual and otherwise, due to your H and his moods, quirks, refusal to take responsibility for himself, pickiness, crankiness, lack of respect for you-- IOW things about HIM that you cannot change entirely apart from his sex drive?
Of course, in fact I would be so bold as to say that IMO more than 50% could be laid at his doorstep since even he would admit that he makes a worse roommate than me, but if we are discussing the things that "I" can fix these issues are irrelevant.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
