Perhaps I should think of a consequence for the potential violation of our sexual agreement that wouldn't be so earth-shattering.
What I had in mind was something along the lines of letting him know that by turning you down, how much he has hurt your feelings and how lonely you might feel. That is every bit as much a consequence as whopping him upside the head, but it would be a 180 sort of consequence. It would also be more I line with the theme you seem to be developing for more honesty and acknowledging your own issues.
I know it is hard to do though, so why don’t you go first and then tell me how it works out (LOL!)
Anyway, I really think you’re doing great! While all the answers are still floating around, your eyes are open to seeing them, and that's really what its all about!
