Cobra, I agree that Mojo is not at the point of D yet... in fact, you kind of read my mind, because I had been about to post something to that effect and then I erased it.
Mojo, I don't think D is the next step... but I think it's appropriate to recognize that there may be a D at the end of the path.
And maybe when you call yourself a wimp, what you're really saying is that "I don't have the guts to stand up for myself because I'm afraid to put my foot on a path that might lead to D."
You're like the guy/gal who is convinced that when he goes in to ask his boss for a raise, not only will the boss turn down the raise, the boss will say, "If you don't like it, then clean out your disk right now and leave." You believe that you can't even go in and ask for a raise unless you're prepared to quit that day.
Mojo: do agree that this is about MORE than sex/sexual frequency/HD/LD?
