I am really hoping to see your H step up to this agreement. I'll bet it will be harder than he thinks. I'll bet, in fact, the hardest part will be the communicating directly. Does this agreement put him entirely in the driver's seat about sex or can you still negotiate for oral or a hj if he isn't interested? Whatever the agreement are you ok with it? Just wondering. It think it is a good thing to be aware of potential issues when hammering out an agreement. No agreement is perfect the first negotiation. That's for sure.
