Mojo, it's interesting that when he gave you That Look while you were eating cereal, you assumed he was thinking "there goes that fat girl stuffing her face again," but it was in fact the crunchiness that bugged him-- NOTHING about your calorie consumption. A lesson there, my dear.
BTW I also have that crunchy food thing. My late H used to sit and crunch ice and I could be three rooms away and the noise would make me tear my hair out. I read one time that in some movie some place a guy wanted to create the sound effect of bones breaking and that was the sound he recorded-- he put the mike up to his girlfriend's cheek while she was crunching ice. UGH! I HATE that sound-- worse than fingernails on a blackboard. Maybe it's a 4 thing.
Go to counseling. You alone if he won't go.
Also, did you ever get someone to clean your house like you said you were going to?
