Quote: Well, I would say that the concept already had a place in our relationship because my H has indicated that he wanted to leave many times in response to my demands/request/stated needs since I've been on this BB.
My point was precisely that this was YOUR cherry...the first time that YOU had crossed the line. Yeah, he may have crossed that line before, and done so many times since, but the dynamics of the R are forever different because you did it this time.
Now you're both playing with the same cards. The challenge is to never pull the Divorce card again. Unless, of course, you're out. I guess I didn't realize you'd gone as far as a "to do" list. (Of course, my "to do" list may have more significance to me than to the average person.)
