Quote: I think it is wrong to want to leave a marriage for sexual reasons
Your sexual "problems" are a manifestation of much deeper issues. If you left, it wouldn't be for sexual reasons alone. If your husband adored you, treated you with unfailing kindness even when he was mad or unhappy with you, if he was a fountain of affection, and held up his end of the household basically no matter what... there wouldn't BE any sexual issues.
Quote: he looked "crushed" and that sent me back into a state of fusion or feeling like I cared or something
Caring, feeling like you care, acting like you care-- NONE of these things is the same as fusion.
