I should clarify that his cr*p behavior is what I believe to be his "offense is the best defense" approach to avoiding sex with me. __________________________________________________________
I have experienced this too. My H's form of offense is to pre-emtively talk about how "tired" he is or to deflect any of what looks like desirous behavior on my part - HP refers to this as "wax on/wax off." I detest the reality that he does this stuff to deter me from wanting sex with him. The thing is that I have resilient sexuality - I can often get past any initial pissed feelings that would keep me from wanting sex. You are this way too. I wonder if your H gets extra crappy because you are so naturally resilient. One of my big difficulties in my M is that I find myself hiding my "enthusiasm" when H does show a little extra affection - I do this for fear of "scaring him off." Like you, the biggest area at issue is the part that occurs between life and sex. While I would like H to be more experimental etc...I could live with the actual sex as long as the desire and sexual negotiation piece went better.
K
PS Did you want to have sex during ovulation just because you are extra horny then or are you trying to get pregnant? Is your H on board with the idea of pregnancy?
