Okay, I shall ellaborate... and you all can correct me...or... redirect where appropriate.
In the dance between men and women, this is how I see it.
A woman rules in the department of kissing. A man may initiate a kiss, but if a WOMAN is present, a woman will come to the forefront and lead the dance. A girl will let a man lead in kissing, and it will fizzle. A woman will step up and the kiss will sizzle.
A man will then trail down a woman's throat. And she will let him. A girl will giggle and back away. Doesn't mean a woman can't give a throaty laugh.
A man will move, step by step, to gauge a woman's reaction. A woman will begin to loose herself, and let it happen. A girl will freeze up at each step of the way.
When a woman trusts that a man knows what he is about, she flings herself, abandoned, like a girl, into the feeling.
A man will ask, what do you like? A woman responds, telling him, and a girl reacts to his efforts.
If a man pleads or demands, what do you like, a girl will respond, if at all, and the woman dissapears, for the man seeks a mother, not a mate.
A girl will touch, tentatively. A woman explores, gauging.
A woman uses her girl for fun and adventure, and a girl uses her woman for guidance. A woman subtley suggests, but a girl will never initiate.
If a woman is dealing with a boy, all of the above will never happen. She must first find the man, and then let the girl come out to play.
I dunno. That's my take on it. I think there is more... but I'm feeling a bit insecure on my feelings on this, so you all chime in.
