Corri I dont see Mr.Mojo being unsure with what to do with nudie typepics. .
He may have felt caught, but thats one of those radically honest things, that can be difficult for some/most.
I totally agree with what you and GEL are talking about. The best word I can think of to describe the dynamic is something Haphazard mentioned a while back
Surrender.
When you show enough strength and a woman trusts you enough to surrender, it creates an amazing feeling in both parties. When as a man you start doing things where she no longer feels safe surrendering, or she doesnt have the environmental conditions, self awareness to surrender, ... just because its what she needs to do, then things start going haywire.
Just another way to intellectualize the idea of crashing insecurities.
oh yeah. IMO a man surrendering to a woman is not a recipe for success. opening a door to the inside now and then definitely is necessary. .... Ill have to ruminate on that somemore.
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