I'm poking my nose in on this cause I know what you are saying. I absolutely agree with this (I know, this seems bass asckwards. But sometimes I think that 'womenn' need to learn how to be girls, and girls need to learn how to be women.)
This is something I struggled with at the beginning of my M. I had become so accustomed to doing things for and by myself...that I had to learn to let go and let my H do things for me (you know, be more girlie). It was 2nd nature for me to just make repairs and do the stuff around the house that would typically be "mans work" etc...I realized my H felt useless to me. It really didn't matter that I was with him because I chose to be....HE felt useless to me. I can imagine that those women that Mojo's H referred to as too smart to be sexy probably give off an "I don't need you" vibe too. KWIM?
