Quote: At various times in our M, we were ML so often that I would look at porn to prime the motor so to speak. she was on one of her HD kicks, and we had an always say yes policy. Had to get the fires burning so I could deal with the no warmup, no foreplay, attacks. It wasnt about being bored with her (though that did happen especially early in the R, before I got a handle on my perception and attraction, and wax and wane is still inevitible.) just worn out. oh yeah and like Andy said, ideas on new pretzel shapes to twist her into, though that probably just made it worse.
I get the prime the motor thing. I have watched WAY too many hours of porn with my H because I did try to be understanding of this concept. Watching porn and then having sex is now as boring to me as constant missionary position with the lights out would be to most men. What do you mean by pretzel shapes making things "worse"?
Quote: Now, as a man, with my new knowledge, I would handle my SO HD kicks differently
How so?
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