Quote: Even though I don't have a lot of spontaneous desire for either my "boring old wife" or the Maxim girls, I know that, if called upon to perform, I'd be ready.
Maybe it's more of a HD/LD thing rather than a male/female thing because my take on the matter is pretty much like yours. I never stop to think about whether I'll be able to get in the mood or aroused if sexual activity ensues or is anticipated.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver