Quote: i often find myself looking at that stuff just to see if i see anything that gets my motor running. doesnt mean i want it then and there or later, but hey, if there is something a bit different i can take with me and say, hey W, i want you to wear this, or be in this position wearing this -- bonus for me
My H has said something like this before too. He said he looks at porn to get "ideas". His "testing the waters" statement was different. I should clarify the issue by stating that he then indicated that he had determined that he was too under-the-weather for sexual activity by looking at the porn. Amazingly, this didn't bother me either.- LOL.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver