I have a practical sexual question for the men on the BB. The other morning I came across my H checking out Maxim online and he tried to hide it from me. I am way over my issues with porn (not that Maxim is exactly porn) so I just totally casually said "I really don't care if you look at that stuff.". My H relaxed and said "That's good. Really, I was just looking at it in order to 'test the waters' for later.". My question is what does this behavior indicate to a man? If you look at some porn at 10 AM and you get a slight rise does this tell you that you'll probably be in the mood for some action at 3 PM? Or is the converse true? If you look at the exciting porn and don't get a rise then you know you aren't going to be able to get it up for your boring old wife?- LOL.

P.S. I should note here that my H has never had any sort of ED problems so I find this confusing. Maybe he isn't testing the "rise" but rather his mental interest?

"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver