I think my hotheadedness (normal under the 'circumstances') could serve to push him right back into her arms. But it that is the case, then I do not want him anyway. And yes, I am dumbfounded that he would seek me out and then be too spineless to tell a woman he CLAIMS not to love, that their short relationship was over. In any case, I also assume that when things calm down, he will panic that I am, indeed gone. My 180 is going to be to lay very, very low and see what he does. Meanwhile, I am going on with my life as if he no longer exists. Right now, I am very, very angry with him for being so stupid and completely spineless. Valuing her feelings over mine was just pure idiocy.
notmars
"No problem was ever resolved at the same level at which it was created."