Avid golfer / Hobbies & Successful marriages

[BeingMe]

I agree with ROK! I would say, try and get in a couple of 9 holes during the week, and leave the weekend free to do stuff with your W, and kids. I guess I am lucky, in that, my H doesn't see the point in investing 5 hours to play a game of golf - he prefers the 9 holes, and will occasionally do that with a friend, a couple of times a year.

I do think, however, that everyone is entitled to their hobbies and interests. I am a SAHM at present, but have most of the day to myself, so I started studying again. My H is into doing stuff in his garage, i.e. fixing motorbikes, doing some woodwork, etc. I don't begrudge him that at all. We are thinking of taking dance lessons together, in the fall. Should be interesting.

This is something to mull over, for sure, and affects how we go about piecing our M's.