If your into reading I'll give you a couple that I thought were pretty good. One is a good read, the other a little deeper.
First is "How to date your wife" by Cronin. He's a "non" professional that interviewed dozens of women and the book is based on their feedback.
The other (since you are talking about your needs, wants, etc.) is His Needs, Her Needs by Harley.
The first above is a quick read. It's really about creating some "rituals" that build strenght in the M. Trust me, it can and will boggle the mind. I have found that I treat my W WAY better than alot of her friends husbands do, but I did find that I wasn't understanding her needs at ALL.
In the end, as a venusian, your W needs you to listen and understand - and show that you understand by A/V'g and playing what she says back (at the right time of course).
Good luck.
Sven
Never sacrifice the great for the good. Sometimes the beauty of grace is that it makes life not fair.
