so things for her without her having to ask you, for ME it's nice when my H takes the trash out of he sees it full, reads a bedtime book to one of the kids without me suggesting it. Cook her something or take her out if she is tired and doesnt' want to cook, ummmm, plan a day out as a surprise.
You are a sweety by wanting to do this, hope she appreciates whatever you end up doing
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.