Putting my wife "on a pedestal"

[I_Still_Love_Him]

Hi CJR
Welcome to our forum. You might want to start by asking her what the other husbands do that she wishes you would do for her. Rather than trying to guess, ask her. Everyone woman has different needs; we really aren't all the same although there may be some common needs.

You might also want to check out this website - www.mortfertel.com. It is a Marriage Fitness program that you can either join as a couple or go solo.

Communication is very important in a relationship and if you can sit with her and ask her what she wants, she might just tell you. But remember, do not try to get defensive by telling her the things that you do already for her because it may not be what she needs. If she can give you a list of 10 things, then maybe you can start with one of them but don't overwhelm her all at once. Good luck