IMINTROUBLE sounds like you are doing great under the circumstances. I wondered if you had children. I, too, would have moved on if there weren't children involved. They are way too precious to put through the hell of divorce if you can avoid it. You and I are big boys, we can make decisions and heal, our children don't get to make any choices. It is up to us, to make good choices for them. Our spouses are unable to do that right now. My oldest told me that I was her hero because I don't quit. I keep those words in my heart. You will be your daughters hero too as long as you've done everything you could. No matter what, doing the right thing is never wrong. All the best.
