I am NOT going to give her my analysis. She knows something is wrong anyway. Recently (last 6 mo) she’s begun looking into info on adult children of alcoholics. I know the last time she was home at her parents she tried to find an ALNON meeting. Ironically, the A started only a few weeks after she got back. She’s also told me she is selfish and has always had low self esteem issues, although you’d never guess it if you met her. As a matter of fact, she told all of this to the MC during our first (and only) joint session. She’s been back once alone, and is going again the day before she leaves. MC thinks there is something more to the story, but she hasn’t open up yet. Honestly, were it not for my D7, I would have already packed the W out of here back to the States. Then she could carry on a long distance A and see how that worked out. I'm a GAL-ing dude...I've already done a couple of 180s that the W has made comment about. Of course, I'm realistic...I can do more 180s than Jordan in a slam dunk contest and it won't matter as long as the A is still hot and heavy.