IMINTROUBLE, Don't do it, man! Stay away from OM's w. It can only go bad for you. If w finds you are actively trying to break up her little "fantasy world" she may be out the door, which is fine if that's what you want. Stick to your own knitting, there's enough there for a great guy to do. I also got the same lines you did e.g. "you are a great guy, you deserve to be happy" I think there's a book out there for cheaters telling them what to say! Read Michelle's book (I don't remember if you have or not) it has helped keep me sane (I hope I'm still sane). Stick to taking care of you right now as best you can.
