Thanks for the advice. Since the bomb my W has said over and over that she thinks I'm a great guy, I deserve to be happy, the problem is with her, and she just never "got the feelings back", yadda yadda yadda. Despite our agreement to keep the household together for the time being, I sense a real struggle within my W. I think she has lots of guilt about staying under the same roof with me while seeing OM. Says she just doesn't see how I can take it if she's going out to see him, etc. etc. For the 3-4 days after the bomb we slept in the same bed, but since then she has been sleeping in D7's bed (D7 is with grandparents). I know she has looked at apartments, etc. We took a walk around the town square last night and she just about broke her neck looking a every place with a "FOR RENT" sign. She has told me the OM can't get a D until Dec (at that point, 20 years married, his ex would get lifetime health insur). Hopefully I can keep her in the house at least until then...we'll see.
