I'm impressed with the empathy you are expressing towards your wife and this mess she has put you both in. I think that says something for who you are as a person. I hope soon she comes back to earth and sees the great guy she is throwing away. I hope you have some supports in place cuz you've only been posted there 10 months too. Sadly, in a small community you can't just blend in with the scenery. Keep us posted.
