Not real sure on why she would want to talk to you about it. Does she have any other friends she can talk to about this?
I do see why she would want to talk to someone though. Think about it. The OM is in a bad sitch and your W wants to leave your sitch and jump into that? She has no clue about what she is getting herself involved in. No wonder she is looking for someone to talk, or offer her support. She's looking for someone to tell her she is doing the right thing. She basically knows that it isn't the right thing, but is choosing to ignore all the signs.
"Our life is what our thoughts make it."
Marcus Aurelius
