OK...here's the deal. The OM is married and has 4 kids, ages 3-16. He has told his W that it is over, and he is moving out soon. His W knows that her H is actively involved in an affair with my W. (They went on an overnight trip together this weekend to celecbrate his birthday...he's 10 years older than my W!!!!) Apparently the OM and his W ahave a very rough situation in the house, with arguing in front of the kids, W using kids as spies, etc. etc. Here's the question...why on earth would my W want to talk to me about the issues with the OM?? Today we had a short conversation about how the OM and his W were handling the kids, the pending D, etc. etc. Is this smart? She seems to open up to me as a friend, but is is very had to keep the conversation from migrating to a R talk about us. Of course, as soon as she's NOT talking to me she's hotmailing the OM constantly, or sneaking off to call him on the cell. Any advice is appreciated...
