When we last heard from him.... DavidM had told XW to get her crap out!
So XW comes out a couple of times in Oct and packs up her stuff. And if you've seen the thread in SURVIVING OY VEY..... you know about the newest BF. Well she first TOLD me that he was going to come help her move and then ASKED if that would be okay. (and I could be there or not!) I Don't THINK SO!
So I told her NO, he wasn't going to come in my house and she could find someone else to help her. She ended up getting a good friend of ours to help and the three of us loaded up the Uhaul...
So her CRAP is GONE! FINALLY. And even though the house looks a little emptier, I'm liking it!
She has now moved into the MOTHER IN LAW apt that just happens to be in the basement of the new BF! And he just happens to have a field/barn so they are moving D15's horse to his house. And gee, imagine this, she now wants the kids to stay at her place FOUR nights a week. NOT! Oh, and the BF? She met him in "early JULY"... WTF? And you're already glommed up w/ him? Hmmmmm. It's like she wants to recreate a perfect little family.
Whatever. I'm not seeing anything other than her moving on.
Funny thing is as I look back over the past 22 years I see so many flags of things where she wasn't forthcoming about things that later became issues. Or she expected things to be a certain way; as my Mother put it... she has an overly idealistic view of love/romance. Probably best to just forget ever having a R w/ her. I was her first real serious BF and she was pushing to get engaged fairly quickly even though we both had talked about it. Then w/ OM (Virgin BOY!) same thing; talking wedding plans a month after she moved out! Now practically living w/ this guy in less than 4 months. Bad thing is the kids don't have a problem w/ anything she's done even though NOT ONE PERSON that has heard about her actions thinks any of it was appropriate! WTH is that all about?
