Okay, so 4 weeks ago I asked XW if she wanted to meet one time w/ the C I was seeing that D15 had seen. That I had been talking to her about kid issues, etc. Thought maybe she'd like to hear from the C. So we go, I pick her up. It's mostly a productive session, only for about a min. does it get "off topic" and about US...
I give her a ride back to her apt and then the fireworks start... Nothing bad but she angrily tells me that we will NEVER have a relationship except as co-parents. So I then ask her when she intends to get her personal stuff/furniture out of the house. She gets irate and says "YOU TOLD ME I COULD LEAVE IT THERE AS LONG AS A WANTED!"
I said, yeah, when we were SEPARATED.... but we are divorced now, and according to YOUR decree and what YOUR lawyer put in the settlement agreement you were supposed to get your stuff out w/in 30 days... which was the middle of JUNE!
So she says she will start packing... She's been here twice since then and has more boxes piled up in the basement. No word on when she's moving the stuff out. She has said she needs to move (AGAIN) as she can't afford her apt. Oh Well.
So, it looks like I'll be having some more space here soon!
And it's funny, I've got more $$$ now that she's gone... Gonna get the driveway paved next month before the bad weather hits! We had wanted to do that for years and just never had the EXTRA $$$ or something always came up.