DM, New to this board and reading, sounds like interesting stuff. To get back to your original question if the D says 30 days close things then the stuff in your house is now "your stuff" and I think your title says it all, "Get this cr@p out of my house" or it will be by the curb come next trash day. You are not her storage facility. At this point you are not getting points w/her for keeping it and its keeping you from your new life. RJ
