So you and OM work together and W and OM are no longer an item? Is that right?
I don't know how long you have been D but I think it is pretty common finding out answers to our "long lost questions." They have a tendancy to fall in our laps, with little to no effort.
I'm guessing OM is feeling less guilty after talking with you.
OH YEAH, Fortunately NOT in the same little area, but basically the same schedule and similar shifts and we see each other ALL the time.. HE was ALSO in our little circle of about 5 or 6 people we socialized with. She basically just wigged out. Got some time? Read my thread, HELLBENT... Will give you quite the laugh! And OM and I had a very civil conversation; as I told him I DON'T HATE HIM... I just don't respect him and he made a bad choice getting involved w/ her just b/c she said the marriage was over... Saying so doesn't make it so...
And yeah, I've gotten some "answers". I'm figuring out that I'm not at all the awful person she made me out to be the past few years. Continues to be obvious that she has a LOT of issues. I feel for her, pray for her, but that doesn't mean I'm going to be held over a barrel. I've met some really nice, fairly attractive women, and had some fun going out. And I don't feel guilty about that (much!)
