And the thing is, is that you can make literally *every* decision yours on some level...exp - if she heads up the hill you can always chime in with a "I think that's a good idea...." etc....and then bust her on something like "It'd be a good idea for you to escape my animal sexuality for a few days, so you're not tempted to seduce me or something"....talk about a mixed message that'd make her her spin.....heh...PLUS it reminds YOU that YOU have selected HER - not vice versa....YOU, my friend, are the SELECTOR and she's a guest in YOUR reality.
Isn't it funny tho - we step up and start making a few decisions and then suddenly - pow - the floodgates open?
Bottom line - does it work? Sure looks like it.....YOU are responded well and SHE is noticing....more of the same!
And refering to....our shared resource - well, there are plenty of tips about the whole decision making bits....
The more I think about this, the more I'm realizing that what SHE is seeing is this - a Man who knows what he wants, is strong enough to express, who'll listen to her input take in account - AND then make HIS own decision - he's a man in charge of HIS own reality and she's along for a fun ride.....
Flowers....experiment? Tell her you saw something today - something cool and that she likes - and mention to her that it made you think of her....like "W - I saw a beautiful sunrise this morning. It made me think of you." Period. End of sentence.....nothing more, nothing less. That's a gift worth giving - that you were thinking of her in context of something awesome.
Contrast is electric....just wait until you look her in the eye and say "No".....
