you know you are right - in general women dont know what they (we) want - we usually want what we got and the opposite all at the same time we want to be the centre of someones universe but we that someone to have a life, to be a strong person who is not dependent on us and someone who we have to work at keeping because they are so strong and independent that they may just go off and not come back while at the same time know that they wouldn't just go off as we are after all the centre of their universe.
how confusing for all eh?
Quote: Your the most important thing in the world to me"
next time try your 'one' of the most important things to me - of course the other things are yourself and your happiness, your business, your relationship with the lucky girl you see as your D etc etc now on the ladder of importance of she may be on the top rung but she wouldn't be on the ladder herself.
If as the female or the male in a relationship you are the adventure then the world revolves around you and the other person in the relationship wants to hang around you all the time, be with you, give you want you want when you want and is totally besotted and dependent on you. Everything they organise or do resolves around your happiness to the extent that they forgo what they want so you can have what you want. Kind of one of them people who say what do you want to do or where do you want to go all the time because they can't think of something to do that is just for them. You hear one person in a couple say often - she/he never makes a decision about what we are going to do this weekend, he/she never says hey how about we do xxxxxx, or he/she never goes and does anything on their own that they like instead he/she hangs around at home and does nothing (and usually the other partner would like some time alone at home especially if they are at work all the time and never get time alone to just vegie out doing nothing thinking of no-one because their partner has gone out doing something for themself (apart from grocery shopping) because they are the adventure and how tiring.
and what an awesome response when you just packed up and left - wonder what would happen if you packed up managed to leave and she got home and you were not there? Bet you'd get a phone call it seems that you are most definately on the right track here, creating a bit of mystery about where you are going and what you are thinking - and the result is lots of little clues from her to let you know all is going good between you.
well I guess I got over my speechless moments so if you did wake up tomorrow after the miracle occured tonight what would be the first thing that you would notice that was different about the day in those first moments after you opened your eyes - what would you be feeling, what would you be thinking and what would you notice that was different about YOU.
