Based upon the scientific process ( do more of what works, less of what doesn't) the results are obvious.
When I approach to give a kiss goodbye or goodnight or whatever, the results are less than stunning. When I go to leave without going for a goodbye kiss (which is hard as hell BTW) the results are the opposite.
Hey Xue, Just a thought... she may not realize she's doing this. Telling you one thing and doing another. I don't know enough of your sitch to say the timing is right, but maybe you can solve this by opening communication lines on this. Telling her it's confusing to you when she shows that she wants you to show her love but then when you do you get less of a response than when you don't. Use those examples. She may get upset, but she may also see that she's not communicating what she wants to communicate. That she actually likes hearing that she's the world to you.
Again, I don't know if this is the right moment for it. It depends on how shaky the ground is.
May it be eternal while it lasts.
My sitch
Me: 36
H:34
M: 5 years
Bomb: 03/14/06
