Quote: When I pulled the Paul and Anne last week I did pretty damn good and then I blew it. Everything was perfect. I was exuding confidence and getting my message across. But then I ran out of words and said something stupid. I said something to the effect of "Your the most important thing in the world to me"
Okay, this is driving me nuts today. Why is telling your w, the woman that you love that she is the most important thing to you "blowing it?" Ladies, is that not what you want to hear? We love that sh*t Xue. Why inhibit your natural feelings of love or face being told you are manipulating her just because you want to express love for the woman you adore?
These games...not good! DB in this vein is good for stabilizing things in the beginning when our world gets turned topsy-turvy, but you are beyond that and acting "as if" for the rest of your life makes no one happy, least of all you.
Anyway, I posted to you on TJ's sex thread in newcomers more of my thoughts about your W being the "pursuer" and you can read about it there.
Here is the question...how long will the payoff last? How long can you keep saying "frankly my dear I don't give a damn" when you actually really do give a damn?
