It is a little weird at first - but think it out....Sven and I and another have been working on this stuff for quite a while now - and it's just beginning to "make sense" beyond a logical stage....
Look at it this way and notice where the adventure emphasis lies...
Take someone ON an adventure - the focus is on YOUR adventure and the other person is coming WITH you to share in it....
Make someone the adventure - now the focus is totally off what YOU want and on THEM.
Okay - now step back for a second and compare/contrast with DRing - esp LRT....where is the focus?
Ding! I just saw a light bulb go on I do believe....I had to listen to this section of the CD a few times to "get it" and really just NOW while writing am making the full connection - but it's really powerful.
Women want to be taken ON an adventure - they do NOT want to BE the adventure.
And I challenge any female readers to prove me incorrect. And yes, I made this mistake BIG TIME. This is THE mistake that hallmark's a "nice guy"
Just for clarification's sake - when I refer to "nice guy" I'm not talking about courtesy and politeness and all that - I'm talking about catering to each and every whim of her's and dropping everything that matters to you in an attempt to appease her. IOW, utterly giving up everything that made you you. Hi! That was me!
Sven's reference to romance novels is spot on - what's the plot? Wild man doing cool things thrills lady. He blows her off and does his own thing and she wants him all the more until he finally relents just enough to literally sweep her along on HIS ride.
Or to put it another way "Frankly, my dear, I don't give a damn".....
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