BTW- I think I'm going to tell her I'm applying for MENSA membership tommorrow. I was going to join years ago but figured they were a bunch of ego maniacs. Actually now I realize I didn't join because of my own self esteem. but that has changed and I feel pretty damn good about myself.
Although joining MENSA would be totally for me it would throw her for a loop.
There's a chapter about an hour from here. I passed the tests to get in years ago with no problem. I'm pretty confident I'd have no problem getting in.