Ney Nicola,

Thank you. Courage? Never knew that about myself until recently. It is truly amazing how this process brings our true potential out.

How will she know that I am catchable?
Before we even dated, when we were still just "looking across the room at each other" I was out on a date. My date and I were leaning over a rail watching the dance floor. My right arm was intertwined with hers. As we were talking I felt an arm pass through my left arm. I turned to look and guess who? She latched onto me and acted "as if" there was not another girl on my right arm. I was in a bit of a situation. After a few minutes or an eternity of me sweating profusely in this situation my date announced she had a headache and wanted to go home. I took her home and broke all the speed limits getting back to that bar.

It was always a joke later on that noone even realized I had switched dates that night, serial dater that I was.

My wife has no problem going after what she wants. Although I am watchful of her self esteem I think she will have no problem coming after me when she decides she wants to.

Xue


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