Need I remind you that you women have discussed this many times. You have talked about the need for a man to be a security blanket but also to be a little bit of a bad boy. To know that he's there for you but there's that little threat that he could walk away at any time.
I have worked hard on developing all of my R skills. They are mostly quite good now.
But I have always been in pursuit. In lesser and lesser degress but still pursuit. Doing a 180 would mean changing this pursuit to running away (but still being able to be caught). I had not done that until the other day.
Do I think it will work?
It will if I can pull it off.
This woman loves me. I have absolutely no doubt of that. Her actions show it every single day. All of the books say (and I believe them) that if there is a little spark the techniques will work. I am certain there is far more than a little spark.
Something else I've always known. 18 percent of all couples who divorce remarry each other. I am very certain that if we were to D that we would fall into that 18 percent if I were to let us. I have always known that I would be the only one stopping that from happening if it came to that.
I feel like I have the key to make my woman purr. I could be wrong but I feel very strongly that I am right.
Why do I know this so strongly now? How is it that I can now see the forest?
Maybe I am dissillusioned. But I don't think so.
Michelle says the answers are within us. I know she is right.
