Turns out she had misinterpreted something I said on Thursday night on returning from my other business. She had thought that I had made a decision (which very much involved her) with our partner in our other business without her being in the discussion. She thought that I then came home and told her that the decision was now in effect.
This was a miscommunication and I'm gonna have to lay the blame mostly on her. Her perception created it. Her perception was that she had no power. What she percieved was way off from what I said.
The ironic thing was the decision was about giving her a sash like mine to represent she had the same power position as me. This has become an issue since I've been gone more and needs to be solved. Traditionally as my wife she carries my rank also. But not everyone always respects it and we needed to make sure that they do.
So yesterday we talked it out and figured out what had happened. We're right back on track. Just a little derailment there.
It's amazing how a person's own issues can strongly color their perception. This has been a problem many times and created some very emotional issues. Fortunately not very often anymore. It happened very often when our R problems first sprung up and up until about 6 months ago.
I had gotten pretty upset over this downturn because I thought we were past that. We hadn't had any in a very long time. It had been all moving towards the positive for quite some time.
Bj, great minds think alike. Sat I had stopped kissing her altogether and pulled away pretty hard. It was definetely noticed and may havve spurred on the conversation yesterday that led to the resolution. I pulled away and I did notice her pursuing a bit. Oh what a little dance we do.
Very interesting stuff about the eyes. Very related to my work also. The eyes are so important in so many ways. Did you know a skilled martial artist can shut off the limbic communication through the eyes. Those little dialations and such can be stopped through having greater control of the mind. It's called Mushim or "no mind".
So she's been asking if I thought I'd be healthy by our next visit to the natural health practitioner. She's been feeding me my pills very regularly. Hopefully she's thinking what I'm thinking. If the NHP gives us the go ahead then woopeee!!!
