emily: you have helped us figure out your problem, i think atleast one of them. as gh said, you love drama. have you always looked at the negitive things your h has done, yep it appears that way. how many times have you belittled him, many i bet. when you first came here it was h wants to work out our marriage, but i can not forgive his affair. you keep throwing that up in his face. i really think your husband wants to try with you, but you wont allow it. you dont listen to anyone, here there or anywhere. until you do you will suffer greatly. your husband knows what he is doing is wrong, because you keep telling him. you are being the crazy women, going off on him every chance you get, why would he come around you, i wouldnt, no one would. why am i even wasting my time, because i feel once you change yourself, your husband will notice, and your marriage will survive, but only if you change. no more fights, no more drama, no more belittleing you h. become a good person and then only then your sitch will change, but you know that and refuse. why either you are very stupid, or your just playing a game with us and we all fell for it. are you 22 or are you really 13??????????????????????????????????????
