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Another thing last time I checked it takes two to make a baby so don't go putting all this crap on Kevin. If you had your baby just to make Kevin happy then that's all the evidence we need in you showing us how little you value yourself.

She didn't have the girls for Kevin. She had them because she wanted someone to love her, and she thought that they would.

The fact that Emily is now looking for casual sex while in the next breath sad that her husband isn't coming home this weekend isn't the first time she's shown her own signs of infidelity.

Back when I did the comprehensive review of her sitch, I almost mentioned this from a few months ago (and I wish now that I had):

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My parents and my ex-boyfriend think I should give him a few days maybe until Wednesday and then go file for D and child support

Why do you think Emily was discussing the in-depth details of her sitch with her ex-boyfriend? I'll tell you why -- it's because she wanted to feel loved by anyone. She'd have jumped into bed with that ex in a second, if he would have taken her. Also, why do you think she has spent so much time on MySpace ... it's not just to keep tabs on Kevin and Cassie, I can tell you. It's to flirt with other men. Emily may or may not have been physically unfaithful to Kevin (she lies and hides so much stuff that she almost certainly wouldn't have told us if she did), but she has clearly been unfaithful in her heart. She paints Kevin as a WAS, but she was never in the marriage to begin with. I still get a kick about her statement from months ago with respect to Kevin:

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His family is nothing but liars and crazy people, I was his shot at a normal healthy life.

ROTFL!

I was going to write about how sad it was that so many of us have wasted so much time trying to help Emily, but then I realized that it was actually very beneficial to me to follow her sitch. I saw shadows of a few of my behaviors in Emily, and that's made me more determined to change them. So thanks, Emily, for being a bad example.

The LORD is near to all who call on him, to all who call on him in truth." (Psalm 145:18)