Quote: BUT . . when the hell do I get to feel OK again?
When YOU freaking CHOOSE to feel ok. It REALLY IS THAT SIMPLE!
Quote: I am NOT putting myself through a divorce..
No, but from the looks of things, your life may be dramatically improved if you can learn to be an independant woman of substance because if it. Silver linings DO exist!
Quote: I get that I have to own my mistakes . . but why the hell doesn't he have to own his?
He does, YOU don't. What you REALLY mean is "why do I have to own HIS mistakes too?" You don't. You choose to. You choose to make everything he does about you, and vise versa. Stop it now!
Quote: If it were up to me we would at least try. . .
No, if it were up to you, this would have never happened, there would be peace in the middle east and Lance Bass would not be gay. There are a TON of things, actually almost EVERYTHING, in this world that you do not control. Get over it. Learn to control what you can... YOU!
Quote: BUT I don't get to make a choice. I HAVE TO LIVE WITH HIS CHOICE . .
BS. Like I said. You CHOOSE to do this. Nobody is forcing you to live with anything other than those two girls. Make a DIFFERENT choice. Choose to let him live his own life, and you yours!
Quote: I have to live with being divorced with two kids.
Not yet, but IF you do, what makes you think you are any different than the millions of successful women out there who have lived that life before you?
Quote: I know that I can make choices from there . . It's just hard to see out of this lovely hole I've dug myself into.
Stop digging today. Really, stop. Make those choices starting right now!
