Just adding a thought . . . I feel like the OW in this sitch . . . I mean she calls and he misses her . . .she doesn't want him and he wants her more. I do those things and it pushes him farther away. I will not do them anymore. I should just let them be "happy" together. I feel like she is using him . . . I really do . . . I feel like he is going to get burned. But what do I know? Why should I care may be a better question.
I don't want to hurt anymore . . . I have to make the choice to walk away . . . It's so hard because all of my heart is screaming for me to STAY and tough it out now. My head is calmly telling me to RUN the other direction . . and keep saying, "I'll be better off. I'll find someone who REALLY loves me."