Let him call. Let the phone ring till it hurts your ears - better yet - turn it off.
If you answer it, he knows you are there for him and will keep the door open for him - this enables him to have his cake and eat it too. If you don't he will use this as a reason to be with OW.
Quote: I know this game . . and I don't want to play it anymore.
Then DON'T!
Stop - Detach baby! Who gives a rats a$$ if he calls you!Right now you don't need time to think (IMHO). You need some distractions. I make myself crazy when I think because no matter what we think about it will almost always return to thoughts of our S in the A with someone else.
So distract yourself. Paint your nails. Take a bath. Listen to your favorite music. Go outside and dance barefoot in the grass with one hand waving wildly in the air - dance like no one is looking! Make a cool drink, put your feet up and just breath deeply in and out!
