Emily,
Positive is right. I am looking at my sitch as a 2 year break from marriage to fulfill my dreams. I really do not think you have to do anything but put protections in place right now.
Let H make all the next moves.
I really think that he is moving away from you because you are too good for him. They seem to know this sometimes.
Holly


Bomb 1/06
D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature.
Divorce final October 31, 2008.
OW looks like bad history. Over.
Still hopeful. Baby steps.
In R with my X.