Emily, Positive is right. I am looking at my sitch as a 2 year break from marriage to fulfill my dreams. I really do not think you have to do anything but put protections in place right now. Let H make all the next moves. I really think that he is moving away from you because you are too good for him. They seem to know this sometimes. Holly
Bomb 1/06 D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature. Divorce final October 31, 2008. OW looks like bad history. Over. Still hopeful. Baby steps. In R with my X.