You asked for me to stop by so I'll tell you exactly what I think....
First, I want to point out to you that the very fact that you are even able to feel compassion for your husband for hurting over OW is quite a testimony to just how much growing up you have already done. I am very proud of you for that.
That being said, I just wish he had the same amount of compassion for you and that it would cause him to be unable to lay this on you. Oh well. Can't win 'em all.
Emily, my advice is to do what you are comfortable doing. If you are okay listening to him talk about that, then let him. If you are not, tell him so nicely and with respect.
Bottom line, at this point, do what you are comfortable doing.
